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Why do I do it this to myself?

So as a dancer and content creator, it’s been wild. Having big dreams and plans for yourself and the platforms you’re on is one thing but like someone said, “The dream is free but the hustle is sold separately.” “talk is cheap,…” uh_ I don’t remember how to finish this one. When I started the #HigherSelf Challenge, it looked like it was going to be sunshine and daisies and yellow mellow days, but omdss. It’s just day 2 and I’ve realized, positivity and it’s energy is a commitment. Most people choose to be negative because it’s really easy to slip into. It’s easy to complain about how “unfair” life is instead of actively going after what you want to change. It’s easy to sit and wallow in self pity instead of making choices to change the situation. Most of the days when we’re down and low, and it isn’t hormones or the stars, it’s merely us choosing to be lazy and going down the least energetic route, the negativity path. The positivity highway is the only way. Truly and honestly. All wealth and happiness stems from knowing and accepting that the situation is getting better and always turns out in the best ways. If you’re not dead, it’s not the end.

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I want to share some of my favorite quotes about going on and pushing forward.

Quotes are a great way to inspire, and some have been used for so long they are now famous in their own right. You may have even heard a few famous sayings used your whole life and don’t know who said them.

It always seems impossible until it’s done.”

Nelson Mandela

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.

Lao Tzu

That which does not kill us makes us stronger.

Friedrich Nietzsche

“Fortune favors the bold.”

Virgil

Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.

John Lennon

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.

Joe Kennedy

You must be the change you wish to see in the world.

Mahatma Gandhi

You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.

Mae West

“I think, therefore I am.” – René Descartes

Tough times never last but tough people do.

Robert H. Schuller

Get busy living or get busy dying.

Stephen King

Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.

Henry Ford

Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

Alrded Lord Tennyson

“Time is money.” – Benjamin Franklin

A man is but what he knows.

Sir Francis Bacon

You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take.

Wayne Gretzky

If you’re going through hell, keep going.

Winston Churchill

Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.

Albert Einstein

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.

Mark Twain

Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game.

Babe Ruth

Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re going to get.

Forrest Gump

He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals.

Benjamin Franklin

A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.

David Brinkley

In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: It goes on.

Robert Frost

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

Mother Teresa

The future belongs to those who prepare for it today.

Malcolm X

Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go for the great.

John D. Rockefeller

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Eleanor Roosevelt

In the long run, the sharpest weapon of all is a kind and gentle spirit.

Anne Frank

Sing like no one’s listening, love like you’ve never been hurt, dance like nobody’s watching, and live like it’s heaven on earth.

Mark Twain

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.

Teddy Roosevelt

People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.

Abraham Lincoln

So here are 32 quotes that pretty sum up most of what I was going to talk about. It’s almost always in our mind ; how we perceive things, how we project things. It’s always in our minds so what seeds are being planted to produce the best? The best we can be and get?

Bare minimum

You know how you know better but you don’t do it? That’s when you’re giving yourself the bare minimum. And when you do that, you end up accepting the bare minimum from other people and situations as well.

Stop it.